Why are people rushing their timeline?
People of our modern society are most likely to fail in their timeline management. There are some undefined believes in our culture that makes us stressed and depressed. Being in a typical Indian family, people around me are expecting my progress to be rushed without considering myself. Getting married in 25 unhappy is useless, being in a career that you hate is actually wasting your life, not getting a better grade than the other kid your parents know doesn't make you a failure, taking an education without your interest is a complete waste of time. The parenting people of this generation are expecting their kids to just follow the timeline that someone created. Getting married and starting a family in the 30s is still ok, getting into the career that you love even it pays you low is fine, starting a business even if you are in your 50's is cool. Our lives are precious, nobody have any idea about our future, wasting it by doing the sh*t you don't like is a hell bad idea. Get married if you really want to, a lot of women face this problem. "Taking a stand in your decision may not make you look nice, but leaving your decision behind definitely make you one".
Story of timeline victim.
I have a friend of mine who is an engineer. She is the most ambitious one I have ever seen, But the timeline played with her life too. Her dream is to build a company of her own, after completing college she started gathering the knowledge that she wants to start a company, But her parents had other ideas about her future. They decided to arrange a marriage for her since she was 23. She had no choice other than to accept it. A year later she gave birth to a baby and after 2 years another one. Her life in her 20's went by parenting her children. Then in her 30's, she had many commitments as family functions, children's educational support, household works, etc. It may take another 10 or 15 years for her to get relief from all those things. She already lost half of her life living for others. If she had a chance in her 23rd age to start her career, she might have changed the world or might be happy for the things that she did. This society made so many sad stories like this one.
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